Personal Style

Love Me or Hate Me

6 July 2011

(Kazami Blazer , Nikicio Sheer Pants, Aldo Shoes)

Heard and read several bad talks and comments about me. They say I’m a freak, a weirdo, a faggot, et cetera. Just because I’m dress a little bit different. Just because I eat lollipops. Seriously? They hate me for those ridiculous reasons? I never interfere with their life, but why they keep minding my business? At the end I realized. That’s life. There will always be pros and cons. We just couldn’t make everyone love everything we do.
To whoever you guys are, go say or do whatsoever you’d like to do to me if it makes you feel better than me, it’s your right. But I also have right to live my life the way I want it to be. I won’t stop. I’m not scared if you hate me, because I believe there are people out there who will keep on supporting me and accept me the way I am. Anyway I still thank you guys, I take your acts as ‘an excessive attention’

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  • Reply Bella 6 July 2011 at 2:27 PM

    u r unique and stylish , i rarely find a guy like you . it's ok to be called freak etc , people have different perspective about us . never let that harsh comment break u down 🙂 .

  • Reply Anastasia Siantar 6 July 2011 at 2:47 PM

    I love your unique style! it's inspiring!! don't ever listen to haters, they are just jealous of how amazing you are, boy! KEEP ON INSPIRING OKAY! 😉

  • Reply ARIO ACHDA 6 July 2011 at 3:24 PM

    ahahahahahaha, i had same experience, even until now. u dont have to be pissed off arnold, cos i know that you know that you are better than what ppl think of you, iya kan? 🙂
    i mean, come on, look at u!! i drool over lots of ur stuffs! aku mau juga kazami yg itu tp yg dual tone ah 🙂

    u have a great day arnolddddd

  • Reply Henny Vitri 6 July 2011 at 6:02 PM

    you are great and i strongly believe that you've got the talent. stay positive! 😉

  • Reply Michelleesque 6 July 2011 at 10:12 PM

    I get those kind of comments also. It's unfortunate that they have to resort to those things as though we really give a care about what they say. Just keep doing what you're doing. You have more people who love the way you dress and accept you for who you are than you do haters.

    I love your blog and your sense of style. Keep it up! 🙂

  • Reply Lucca Yoga 6 July 2011 at 10:46 PM

    I also experienced it, even now. But we only need to do what we really like. It's our life and not them.

    Lucca Yoga

  • Reply Luthfi Ramadhan Putradi 7 July 2011 at 12:16 AM

    They are just jealous of you, I also experienced it, even until now.

    haters gonna haters. so… jalanin aja ~

  • Reply Tara 7 July 2011 at 1:12 AM

    in this world there must be someone who likes or hates you. So think of those who hate you as input or criticism to make you better. Honestly I also experienced it, but I keep moving forward and trying to be better. Just be your self !!!

    btw I love ur Kazami blazer, so unique 🙂

  • Reply dani 7 July 2011 at 1:59 AM

    i love your style!!

  • Reply AlvianaKalin 7 July 2011 at 2:55 AM

    I love your blazer!!!!


  • Reply M.Ersa Adiprasetya 7 July 2011 at 3:16 AM

    i experienced too arnold, just ignored them arnold, they are totally jealous with you…

    by the way i love your kazami blazer >.< and you look great as always

    Go Arnold! keep spirit 🙂

  • Reply HS 7 July 2011 at 9:32 AM

    but let me see, you are so young and you know exactly what you want and what you like, so do not let them make you down, because that is just word, and do not let them make you down, because you have something worth it to fight for, your dream, your future and if they stay that way, just imagine one day they will work for you

    keep it real and smile'

  • Reply Cindy Karmoko 7 July 2011 at 11:27 AM

    screw haters arnold! i love your style and OMG where did you buy that blazer?

  • Reply Aki No Yuutsu 7 July 2011 at 4:11 PM

    I choose "love you"…(^^)

  • Reply Joey 7 July 2011 at 8:04 PM

    Ignore the childish people who lead such a dull life that they have to talk about other people's lives. We love you!

  • Reply Caroline Robianto 8 July 2011 at 2:09 AM

    waaaaa i really like this look!!! i love the jacket a lott!!! top to bottom so nice 😀 i just wish the pants would be well fitted though 😛 but hey its just me 😀 hihi

  • Reply alannah. 8 July 2011 at 2:59 AM

    dont listen to all the haters! just do what makes you happy, thats all tha tmatters.
    & i think its great that you show your true self through your style. theyre just jealous.
    great look here, love how you've wrapped this jacket without a tee underneath!x

  • Reply Anita 8 July 2011 at 4:54 AM

    Love the outfit.

  • Reply whitney 8 July 2011 at 5:23 AM

    It's great that you're staying strong. Those people don't know anything – just keep being who you are and stay true to yourself.

    Loving your style! You look a lot like Bryanboy!

  • Reply Gioia 8 July 2011 at 7:25 AM

    you look adorable! I'm in love with your shoes <3


  • Reply Arnold Teja 8 July 2011 at 11:47 AM

    Thank you all for the kind words, it means so much to me! 🙂 You guys are really my inspiration.

  • Reply Viv 8 July 2011 at 2:39 PM

    very cool look, you totally pull this off (and not many guys could!)

  • Reply Susan 8 July 2011 at 2:57 PM

    wow, you shouldn't think too much abt those nasty comments. I don't think you are a fag, I'd rather call you unique 🙂 It's very refreshing to see some guys who dare to wear stg different, incl you. And the blazer you wore is to dieeee for! friggin cool.

  • Reply THE DESERT FOX 8 July 2011 at 5:04 PM

    Oh boy. Haters are gonna hate. I find it truely sad that they direct their own insecurities towrads you, because most of them would DIE to have the confidence and style like yours.

    I think you are so fab, and stylish as hell.


  • Reply Miri 8 July 2011 at 6:19 PM

    Love your look and blog, don't listen to what other people say – most of them are just jealous 🙂


    Miri's Castle

  • Reply Angel Garcia 8 July 2011 at 7:23 PM

    Haters will always be haters and they are just jealous! You just continue to be fabulous like in these pictures.. Love it!

    All the best, Angel

  • Reply ching 8 July 2011 at 9:44 PM

    i seriously love the strong shoulder details. im so following you.

  • Reply AuL Howler 9 July 2011 at 3:08 AM

    cool shoes!

  • Reply Flashes of Style 9 July 2011 at 4:21 AM

    Loveee your jacket! So cool.

    xx Bonnie

  • Reply Anonymous 9 July 2011 at 10:11 AM

    you're just gonna end up in hedonism world yound man, hedonism life!

  • Reply khaz 9 July 2011 at 4:56 PM

    Love this outfit the trousers and the shoes are great!
    Also, don't pay attention to those kinds of comments, those people are probabl jealous because they don't have the courage to be the person they truly want to be. You are better than them, and there's absolutely nothing wrong with you.

  • Reply Dika Abriyan 10 July 2011 at 2:22 AM

    dont listen to all the haters!.. just do what you want to do..

    i love your blazer arnold. and i think i want it 🙂

  • Reply regina stacia abigail 10 July 2011 at 10:06 AM

    ive read your post, i remembered the day, back in 2009 when i first started to make a blog. some guys sent me some rude comments about my style my english etc. but one thing i learn, you dont have to hear them. its just an opinion. let it flow! its your style! if they dont like you, so they can easily close the tab and dont ever look at your blog again hhahaha

    keep smiling arnold!

  • Reply Michelle's Style File 11 July 2011 at 7:20 AM

    Shame to hear that people are not kind. Love your jacket btw!!


  • Reply michelle_ 11 July 2011 at 2:29 PM

    wooahhh i love how u wore the blazer with nothing underneath (please dont mistake me for being a perv..) i think it's really unique !

    http://www.glisters and

  • Reply Ena 12 July 2011 at 7:50 PM

    Hi, I sent you an email letting you know that you've been chosen as a winner of the Style Yourself book giveaway! Did you receive it? In any case, just send me your shipping address to my email at kansairetro(at)

    You really have a great style! Each of your outfits is so unique and well put together. I admit I'm not very knowledgeable about men's fashion, though 🙂


  • Reply 13 July 2011 at 1:48 AM

    lovely shoes

  • Reply Tiffany 13 July 2011 at 6:35 PM

    seriously I always love your outfit!
    nice shoes, btw

  • Reply Sydney 18 July 2011 at 3:25 PM

    i'd say they really have no life. mind their critics, just be who you want to be and shine! 🙂

  • Reply Vionna Tania 19 July 2011 at 8:45 AM

    yeah! nice style! and i love your Aldo shoes! 😀

  • Reply Jazzy E (hivenn) 19 July 2011 at 12:40 PM

    You're beyond amazing.

  • Reply Deisha Tamar 29 July 2011 at 7:23 PM

    Haters make you stronger!!! your style rocks and you're only 16. I adore you <3

  • Reply Rachel Abygail 6 August 2011 at 4:01 PM

    hey 🙂 chill
    dont think about what they said about you bro 😉
    ignore them
    well your style is really great

  • Reply Belvin 27 September 2011 at 1:31 PM

    wow love ur blazer so nice

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